2SLGBTQIA+ Identities and When Someone Should Pursue Pegging
Anal sex is taboo. Anal sex is discriminated against. Anal play is hard to consider and ask for by many people of all orientations and presentations. But like getting to know the queer community it’s good to get to know your body and how it feels about pegging culturally. You belong in the prostate community if you decide to pursue prostate orgasms just like someone belongs in the 2SLGBTQIA+ community.
First things to observe are what are your limits? What’s on the menu short term and long term for your play and exploration? I even know some prostate people that have explored same sex intercourse to see if they were queer only to find out that they only like pegging. Personally anal play can only happen receptively on a really long date so I don’t feel rushed and I can feel like it’s a special occasion to do anal. I also have a limit of only using toys for giving anal pleasure as I have a personal preference for that.
Second thing to observe is what are the fantasy elements? How do you envision being 2SLGBTQIA+ or into pegging and want it to play out in your life for 5 minutes, 2 hours, a night, 6 months or a lifetime? Maybe you want to go hard and be the loudest and proudest. Maybe you want to sneak away and see a pegging esc*rt and bring anal play friendly nose inhalant poppers also beloved by the queer community. Maybe it's shameful and you need a journal or safe person to confide in and that is more than enough of a vision of its place in your world and you can always change this place.
FUN FACT ABOUT CLEANING: Demanding your anal play be less messy is a fine standard for many in this life. Requesting that a partner clean out before anal play is a healthy communication you can request if this has been a mental barrier. For me personally, I don't use my hands anally and only use toys. Smaller toys I don’t require an enema, but medium, large, and extra large toys I do require an enema. This is adhered to and respected by many prostate lovers who I appreciatively spend time with. I want to explore more anal play with myself, how soon should I give myself an enema to see if that’s impactful of my experience?
