Revolutionizing Connections, Empowering Desire

I am Bianca Bliss (all pronouns). I am a 33 year old living in Minneapolis, Minnesota. I am autistic, disabled, pangender, bisexual, spiritual, a polyamorous relationship anarchist and a trained Tantric Preistexx. The majority of the last 10 years have been spent with as a trained Tantric Dominatrix and trained Sacred Intimate and trained Tantrika. I am a former trained Surrogate Partner turned Intimacy Coach. I am a Tantra hippie and work with people of all genders and genitalia who are clean and respectful.

I offer somatic, enthusiastic verbal consent, spiritual, Tantric, therapeutic coaching for trauma, sexual and relationship health. I study and practice TICK, trauma-informed consensual kink through a racial justice lens and use things like meditation and prayer to create a dominant bond with Submissives of all genders.

Through mentorship, I have learned the skills of a hardcore dominatrix for 3 years and can practice needle play, sounding and high risk kink. I am a kink, BDSM (bondage, dominance, discipline, sadism, submission, masochism) and fetish educator. I work primarily with people who are new to exploring D/s (Dominance/submission) dynamics or taboo sexual ideas or completely inexperienced. I am open to working with experienced or semi-regular players/kinksters/fetishists

As a trained Surrogate Partner, I worked in a Triadic model with a licensed therapist and sex therapy client for experiential hands on practice of boundaries, consent and sexual intimacy. I stopped being a Surrogate Partner because I didn't want to be part of a therapeutic partnership, but more so wanted to support couples and individuals from a less involved but more mental than romantic/relational role.

I have experienced a lot of training for Tantra, Sacred Intimacy, and Trauma Informed Kink and working therapeutically with people of different backgrounds and identities through education from Surrogate Partner Collective.

I have worked with people on issues such as erectile dysfunction, delayed orgasm, disability, social isolation, erectile desensitization, sexual and physical trauma, veterans, domestic violence victim/survivor/advocates, virgins, inexperienced, body-shamed, passive communicators, mismatched libidos, fantasies, nuerospicy and autistic, dating and intimacy forming, shame of desires, sexual/gender identity & preferences, practical sexual skills, embodied consent education & learning boundaries/your “no”, trans and trans s*x worker, sissy/crossdressing/roleplaying, cuddling, couples, asexual/aromantic, people from collectivist cultures, perpetrators of sexual/emotional/verbal/physical harm, open marriages, infidelity/betrayal, sex cults, tantra connections, religious trauma/cults/high control groups, clergy, addiction to s*x workers, high desire/libido individuals, and sexual/corporal disconnection due to neurodivergence or culture. I am open to working on new topics of interest.

I will not work with people with attraction to children, people with White Supremicist kinks, or people who are harassers or are prejudiced. I believe we can all learn and grow from mistakes and harm we may have perpetrated.

I have a very nice studio where I see clients in Richfield, Minnesota or I can come to your home or chat via online video. When I tour to Boston and Omaha I am available at a hotel, Airbnb or your home. When I travel elsewhere, please inquire.